coaching sessionsCoaching at The Healing Portal is rooted in liberation frameworks, a decolonial lens, somatic awareness, and radical self-trust. Whether you are doing the work of your own life, your relationships, or what you are building with others, this is where you can show up as you are and move at the pace of your nervous system.
All coaching offerings are listed below. Pick the one that fits where you are.
liberation life coaching
Liberation life coaching is a co-creative partnership grounded in liberation frameworks, a decolonial lens, somatic awareness, neuroplasticity, and radical self-trust. We move at the pace of your nervous system and with who you actually are. These sessions are centered on your life goals, values, identity, and presence.
Rooted in Liberation
Radical, decolonial coaching that dismantles the patterns keeping you small and builds the life your soul is actually calling for.
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This is not about productivity or hustle optimization. It is the slow, deliberate work of uncovering who you actually are underneath everything you were told to be, and building a life that is genuinely yours.
Rebecca centers you as the expert on your own life. She is not the authority on your experience; you are. Together we name the internalized systems that show up in how you think about your worth, your time, your body, your dreams, and your identity, and then we build something aligned with who you are becoming.
This is coaching, not therapy, and not a replacement for it. Prior healing work is recommended but not required.
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For people already committed to their growth, who have done some healing on their own and are ready for support. It is especially powerful for those who are neurodivergent, creative, queer, chronically ill, or otherwise outside the norm that most self-help was designed for. We honor your actual capacity and work with who you are.
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Liberation and decolonial frameworks applied to your daily life
Life transitions, identity shifts, and becoming
Your relationship with money, work, time, and worth
Unmasking and neurodivergent-affirming life design
Stronger sense of identity, values, and self-trust.
Boundaries that hold you instead of cutting you off.
Career and creative direction without the burnout script.
Family of origin patterns and the cultural expectations you grew up inside.
Decolonizing your relationship to productivity, success, and rest.
The grief of growing in ways your family or culture cannot always hold.
Building actual nervous system capacity for the life you want.
individual relationship coaching
For one person doing their own relational work. Attachment patterns, desire, identity, communication, jealousy, compersion, boundaries, and the internal landscape of how you love. Any relationship structure welcomed. 1 on 1 support for 50-60 minutes.
Inner Work of Loving
Honest, somatic, relational coaching for one person doing the deep inner work of how they love, attach, and connect. Any relationship structure welcomed.
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This is not about giving you a checklist or fixing your partner. It is the patient work of understanding your own patterns: attachment, desire, communication, jealousy, compersion, boundaries, the cycles you are tired of, and how your family of origin shows up in your adult connections.
Rebecca centers you as the expert on your own relational life. She is not here to tell you how to love, but to help you see how you are loving, and what you want to change. Let’s work together to build connections that actually feel like home to you.
Individual relationship coaching is not therapy and will not act as a replacement for therapy. Prior healing work is recommended but not required.
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For anyone doing their own relational work, partnered or not, in any structure: married, monogamous, polyamorous, ENM, dating, single and dating intentionally, friendships, chosen family, or co-parenting. It is especially resonant for queer, neurodivergent, and non-conforming people who have never seen themselves in conventional relationship frameworks. It is also helpful for people navigating relational wounds and challenges in any relationship they might have.
You do not need a partner with you, and you do not need to fit any particular structure to do this work.
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Attachment patterns and where they came from
Codependency, anxious-avoidant patterns, and the cycles you are tired of
Boundaries and communication tools to express your needs
Family of origin patterns showing up in adult relationships
What reciprocal love and care actually looks like in practice
Your relationship to love, sex, sexuality, romance, and connection
Building relationships aligned with your values or who you actually are
Polyamory, non-monogamy, and non-conventional structures and the questions they raise
Jealousy, compersion, desire, and the emotional landscape of how you love
partners coaching
For two people in any partnership structure: romantic partners, life partners, married couples, anchor partners in a polycule, longtime friends in a relational reset, two family members working through a rupture, co-parents navigating a new arrangement, or any other two-person dynamic that needs a third person in the room. Sessions are 60 to 90 minutes.
Two People Getting Honest
Real-time coaching for any two people in active relationship, rooted in clinical couples training and offered as coaching, not therapy.
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We work in real time on what is actually happening between you. Rebecca is direct, warm, and will name what she sees. The point is not comfort. The point is honesty and repair. She brings the depth of clinical couples training to this work, but offered as coaching. You do not need a diagnosis to deserve support. You need the willingness to show up and do the work, together.
Coaching, not couples therapy, and not a replacement for it. Prior healing work is recommended but not required.
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For any two people in active relationship who are ready to do the work together. All structures welcome: conventional, queer, non-monogamous, kinky, long-distance, newly opening, or long established.
Also for non-romantic dyads: longtime friends in repair, family members working through a rupture, co-parents navigating change. If there is a relationship between you and another person that needs honest support, this is for you.
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Communication and emotional regulation skills that actually fit both of your nervous systems
Repair after rupture, conflict, or hurt
Honest conversations you have been avoiding
Boundaries, agreements, and navigating change
Navigating differences: neurodivergence, attachment styles, cultural background, identity, etc.
Co-parenting and family transitions
What you are building together, and what you want it to look like
Opening up, renegotiating, or transitioning your relationship
Polyamory, ENM, and non-monogamous structures
Anchor partnerships in larger relational constellations
constellation coaching
For three or more people navigating life together. Triads, quads, polycules, chosen family networks, or any configuration of hearts building something real. Group dynamics are complex. I hold that complexity with care. This session is for 90 minutes.
Love Without the Script
A genuinely affirming coaching space for three or more people navigating love and relationships outside the conventional mold, without having to explain or justify themselves first.
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This is for people who have built a love life that does not fit the standard or conventional script and are ready to take it seriously. The group dynamics here are real and deserve to be held with care, expertise, and zero judgment. We work with how each of you shows up, how the constellation moves as a whole, what needs repair or renegotiation, and what you are building together. Rebecca brings clinical relational training, deep experience with non-conventional structures, and a personal lens that does not require you to explain yourself.
Coaching, not therapy, and not a replacement for it. Prior healing work is recommended but not required.
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This coaching is designed for polycules and triads navigating love and life together. For chosen family networks doing the relational work of belonging without blood ties. For queer family configurations. For any three or more people in active, intentional relationship who need a guide who genuinely understands non-conventional structures.
You do not need to be in crisis to come here. You can also come here to deepen, to align, to build, or to celebrate what you have.
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Communication across multiple nervous systems and attachment styles
Non-conventional relationships, non-monogamy, polyamory, relationship anarchy, and complex relational structures
Couple privilege, hierarchy versus non-hierarchy, anchor partnerships, how power moves and shows up through the constellation
Onboarding new partners or transitioning relationship roles
Conflict, repair, and rupture across the group
Agreements, boundaries, and what each person needs to feel safe and seen
Jealousy, compersion, and the full emotional landscape of multi-partner love
Honoring difference: neurodivergence, identity, cultural background, attachment
Co-parenting, finances, and shared life logistics within complex structures
The grief and the joy of loving outside the script
What you are all building together, and how to keep it alive
